The Apps Broke Dating.
We Fixed It!
Dating used to be about connection. Now it’s about swiping, ghosting, and hoping someone’s profile is even close to real.
People crave clarity, intention, and something genuine again.
Enter Human.Guru, an executive search agency for love and lust.
We match people the way top firms find leaders: through intuition, psychology, and emotional intelligence.
Because love stories are still possible.
And every human deserves theirs.
Choose Human.
Human.Guru is about value, quality, and accuracy.
We combine decades of executive search expertise with emotional intelligence and heart to help people find connection with purpose.
Our process is built for humans who are done with swiping, ghosting, and surface-level encounters, and value time, discretion, and depth
Every match is hand-selected and grounded in who you are and how you live.
Whether you’re straight, gay, bi, queer, or a couple exploring, you’re welcome here.
Because connection isn’t one-size-fits-all — it’s human.
The Human.Guru Method
Connection starts with clarity.
Our process is built on intention, alignment, and truth. Before you can find the right person, you need to understand who you are and what kind of energy you want to attract.
That’s where the Human Alignment Session comes in — a deep dive into your values, communication style, desires, and relationship patterns. It’s part psychology, part strategy, and completely focused on you.
From there, we introduce humans who reflect your goals, mindset, and lifestyle. Every match is personal, private, and rooted in genuine compatibility.
Because when you know yourself, you stop chasing the wrong connections — and start attracting the right ones.
Services
Human Alignment
Before you find the right partner, you have to understand yourself. This guided deep dive explores your values, desires, and blind spots. It’s the emotional intelligence work that makes everything after it succeed. Build clarity, confidence, and alignment before we start your search.
Traditional Matchmaking
Private, high-touch introductions for humans who want something real. Each match is intentionally selected to align with your values, lifestyle, and long-term goals. Discover genuine relationships built for chemistry, compatibility, and love.
Lifestyle Introductions
For those who crave chemistry, adventure, and freedom of choice. Whether that means sensual exploration, open-minded dating, or deep platonic friendship — we’ll help you find it. This is a judgment-free space for mature, authentic connection that fits your lifestyle.
The Human Upgraded
A mentorship track for those who want to refine how they love, communicate, and connect. Together, we explore your patterns, boundaries, and behaviors to help you date and relate with more awareness. It’s emotional intelligence coaching for your love life.
The Inner Circle - VIP
Our most exclusive concierge experience, designed for those who value absolute discretion and access. From private introductions to curated events and international experiences, every detail is handled personally by Scott. This is the highest level of ongoing support, privacy, and care.
Our Human Standards*
Every introduction is between two people who’ve done the work. We screen, coach, and prepare every participant to show up with authenticity, maturity, and respect. Because attraction is easy — alignment is earned.
The Human behind Human.Guru
At Human.Guru, everything begins and ends with people. Real humans, not profiles.
Our founder, Scott Caito, spent 25 years in executive search helping companies find extraordinary humans who fit not just on paper but in culture, chemistry, and energy. After conducting over 10,000 interviews, he mastered the art of understanding people, what motivates them, how they connect, and what makes relationships last.
But like many high achievers, he realized that professional success didn’t always equal personal fulfillment. The same clarity and structure that built great teams were missing from modern dating.
That realization became Human.Guru, an evolution of executive search designed for the heart. It is more than a business; it is Scott’s mission to bring authenticity and emotional intelligence back to modern connection.
We help people connect with clarity and purpose, because real relationships begin when you understand yourself and meet others who do too.
F.A.Q.
Who is Human.Guru for?
Human.Guru is for busy, self-aware adults who value time, discretion, and depth. It’s for people who are done with swiping and small talk and ready for real introductions that lead somewhere meaningful.
What makes Human.Guru different?
We blend 25 years of executive search experience with intuition, psychology, and heart. Every match is human-led, never outsourced, never automated. We don’t play the numbers game; we recruit for chemistry, compatibility, and connection so you only meet people who actually fit.
How much does it cost?
Every client begins with a Human Alignment Session ($295), a deep dive to bring focus and clarity before we start your search. From there, programs are tailored individually, from curated introductions to private, concierge-level experiences.
How many introductions should I expect?
It depends on your program. Traditional Matchmaking includes up to six introductions, Lifestyle Matchmaking offers up to eight, and VIP clients enjoy unlimited introductions during their membership. We focus on quality over quantity, and every match is intentional.
What if I don’t find someone?
We can’t promise love on a timeline, but we can promise honesty, effort, and clarity. Most clients meet meaningful matches, and every person leaves the process with sharper self-awareness and stronger connection skills.
Is the community inclusive and LGBTQ+ friendly?
Absolutely. We welcome all humans; straight, gay, bi, queer, and couples exploring open or alternative dynamics. What unites our community is emotional maturity, honesty, and consent.
Do you have a code of conduct?
Yes. Every member commits to honesty, integrity, and clear communication. We screen for emotional readiness and self-awareness to create a safe, respectful environment for everyone.
How is matchmaking similar to hiring a business executive?
It’s the same playbook. You define who you’re searching for, and we quietly go out and find them with precision. The best placements — and the best relationships — come down to two things: chemistry and interpersonal fit.
Do you have a community for non-clients?
Yes. We’re building a private, members-only community where real humans can meet, connect, and grow. Approved members may be considered for introductions, but matchmaking services are reserved for active clients.
Ditch the Apps.
Testimonials
Every story starts the same way:
one call, one shift, one step closer
to something real.
Scott's non-judgmental insights made me feel completely understood. His coaching and introductions have helped me explore my sexuality from a place of safety, confidence, and calm. I'm now meeting like-minded matches and stepping deeper into my personal exploration.
Jillian C. (Married) Family Care MD
I came to Human.Guru after years of dating fatigue. Scott's structured approach shifted everything from how I communicate to how I choose partners. I'm now married to someone who matches me in every way that matters. Yay for me!
Jared C. (LTR) Oceanographer
This process was unlike anything I'd tried before: strategic, honest, and effective. I was introduced to someone who felt like they'd been selected specifically for me. We're now building a life together. I wish Human.Guru was around 6 years ago!
Campbell W. (LTR) SVP, Fortune 500
Scott's non-judgmental insights made me feel completely understood. His coaching and introductions have helped me explore my sexuality from a place of safety, confidence, and calm. I'm now meeting like-minded matches and stepping deeper into my personal exploration.
Sophia G. (Actively Dating) Partner, HR Law Firm
Before Human.Guru, dating felt like guesswork. The initial consultation helped me clarify what I wanted and how to recognize it. The ongoing support and encouragement helped me make the changes I needed to. Within 5 months, I met my partner, and we're now happily married.
Miriam (Married) Owner, Market Research Agency
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